50ish men want to meet smart mature ladies, then cop out after a mature response from a lady. Why is this ?
Men 50, single and up that pose their interest on the web in wanting to meet intelligent and responsible ladies about the same. They want ladies with a good deal of life experience and common sense and integrity that can be a caring and a dependable friend. Then after said lady has demonstrated their intelligence, these guys cop out. What has happened to the ability to have a beginning communication with older men and women today. I am speaking to those who claim to be mature and educated. I see a lot of questions about connecting to a soul mate here, but true connections come from the heart and the mind, the the body will soon follow. How many men have married their school cheerleader or prom queen type and found themselves divorced and/or broke after being married to a high maintenance lady, not to mention his male acquaintances checking her out, and not knowing she’s flirting with the pool contractor when he’s not home. Guys,wake up to reality, life’s to short to waste more time.
Hey, lots of guys say they want a woman with brains, but aren’t prepared for the independence that goes with it. Also they can’t get away with their b.s. as easily. I can say this because my g.f. is smart and independent, and it did take me a while to adjust. Once we old farts get accustomed to matching wits with someone who is not only smart, but worldly, the young girls don’t have so much attraction. Fluff no substance. Keep looking, there are some out there. (I’m 55)
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