Can my estranged spouse demand that no overnight guests are permitted in the home he left over 7 yrs ago?
I live in the house where we raised our kids. We fought bitterly during our marriage due to his drinking and refusal to account for large amounts of money spent. When he left, my daughter had been out of high school for one year, working for a year before entering college.(she was very young in her class so this was a good idea) My son was in 9h grade. My husband DID put about 1000 into a joint account to help pay the mortgage and many loans that were jointly owned every month. This 1000 is still being paid (which is a little less than the mortgage) while I cover about 850 dollars in joint credit payments. In addition I have taken out parent loans in only my name as he refused to help pay for college for the kids. I have also paid all the maintenance costs including lawn and pool care, and all the extras while the kids were away a college, ie books, parking, spending money, hair cuts, clothes. We agreed to begin to try to sell the house. He is now acting like I am a tenant
Got news for him if you stayed it is your house and he can no longer tell you who can visit and who can not. If he wants to act like your a tenant then it still works that way once you rent a place the land lord only has say about pets and the way the home is cared for not who comes in it. And if all you get is the 1,000 than sounds like childsuport to me cant use that to tell you what to do. He left and just because he is not happy and does not want to see you with anyone else does not mean he can stop your life from moving on. My ex keep the house and I only can say anything about visiters if my kids are there at the time and or if he wants the person to move in. Because of the kids but I can not stop him.
2500 21st St # 81, Winter Haven, FL 33881
